Thinking about money…

Posted on: May 15th, 2012 by johannah No Comments

This is a frightening time in much of the world concerning our shared economies. Some of you may have lost a great deal of money from investment failures. Others of you may be facing a tighter budget due to rising fuel costs, which affects the price of just about everything. And we are all fearful of what may be coming next.

When my husband attended seminary, we were on an extremely tight budget. There were times we had no money for groceries. But always in those times, a neighbor shared some items from their garden, or someone sent us a little money, knowing things were tight. We ate a lot of oatmeal during those years, but we never went hungry. God always provided.

When my husband graduated from seminary, we had hopes that things would get easier, but we knew that wouldn’t happen right away since we were involved in a church plant. During those lean years, we put money into perspective. We found out exactly what we needed to live on and what was just fluff.

Money can either enhance your relationship with God or destroy it. My husband and I are thinking about these things again, because just when we got comfortable (three kids through college, two weddings paid for), things are a bit scary again. My husband is following a new calling to train pastors in third world countries. We are both absolutely confident of this call, but we panic a bit as he is raising the money to do this. However, there is something amazing about trusting God to provide.

You may be trusting him as much as we are. It’s not such a bad place to be.

Martha Stewart Is Not Hospitable

Posted on: May 9th, 2012 by johannah 4 Comments

If you ask a group (I’ve tried this, so I know), “What is the first thing that comes to your mind when you hear the word hospitality?” most people will say, “Martha Stewart.” And that’s just a shame, because Martha Stewart is not hospitable. What do I mean by that?

I once watched a Today show segment where Martha was illustrating how to decorate a gingerbread house. Meredith Vieira tried to follow Martha’s directions as they decorated it together. When they’d finished Martha turned the house to display the side she had done, rather than Meredith’s. Meredith asked her why she didn’t show her side, and Martha said, “We want it to look pretty.” Meredith looked offended and said, “Martha!” in a tone of surprise and hurt.

Hospitality is not providing the perfect meal in the perfect home by the perfect hostess. We’ve been led to believe that’s what it is by the Martha Stewart perfection that many of us secretly aspire to. I’d love to be able to turn out food and events that look like Martha’s, but I gave up on that long ago because of time and lack of ability (my gingerbread houses look like Meredith’s, not Martha’s).

I’ve sometimes enjoyed watching Martha’s show. I enjoy beautiful things, so it’s fun to see the amazing things she turns out. And I’m not dissing those of you who have similar ability. More power to you. But I still insist that, in itself, is not hospitality. That’s cooking and craft skill. On her television show, I once heard Martha ask a man, “Didn’t your mother teach you anything?” That is not hospitable.

I heard a story when I was a child about a family who invited a man to dinner who had been homeless much of his life. He was uncomfortable at the dinner table because he’d rarely sat at one. The only utensil he could handle well was the spoon, so he grabbed that and used it for the casserole, the peas, everything. The father of the family followed his cue and also used only his spoon. Soon the homeless man was talking comfortably with them. That’s hospitality.

As Christians, especially, we should be aware of what the commands to be hospitable truly mean (Romans 12:13, 1 Timothy 5:10, 1 Peter 4:9, 3 John 1:8). What do you think? What is true hospitality?

Leaving the Doldrums

Posted on: May 1st, 2012 by johannah No Comments

The driest time in my life spiritually was when I had the fewest challenges. After years of working part-time and raising three children, I decided to “retire.” I had two children in college and only one at home in high school. I was tired and thought that having little to do would renew my spirits and make me feel like a new person.

Instead, I got stuck in the doldrums. The doldrums is the a part of the ocean near the equator where sailing ships of old often got stuck because there was so little wind. My ship was drifting on a windless sea, and I had no idea what to do to get it going again. Fortunately, God did and began blowing the winds that brought me to my current employment and new challenges.

Steve May, in a sermon on PreachingToday.com, gives the following four ways to beat the doldrums:

Getting Right (Repentance)
Feeling good about life begins with repentance.

Living Right (Obedience)
If you are willing and obedient, you will eat the best from the land (Isa. 1:19).

Staying Right (Perseverance)
Stay in the battle regardless of how tempted you may be to quit.

Thinking Right (Gratefulness)
Gratitude is the key to a rewarding life.

So if you are currently in the doldrums, consider those four points and begin to look for what winds are blowing and how God may want you to fill your sails and lead you to new destinations.

Riding the Waves in Parenting

Posted on: April 26th, 2012 by johannah No Comments

This past summer, I had the privilege of watching two of my grandchildren for a week. Anticipating that time, I felt much fear and trembling. Did I have enough energy to keep up with two preschool kids? Would they obey me or be wildly out of control? Would they miss their parents so much that they would be miserable? All of these were valid concerns, but I garnered much prayer support for the week and my fears disintegrated. Other than my energy being taxed, it was a fabulous week.

But that week also put me in touch with all the temptations and pulls my grandkids already feel at their tender ages. It reminded me of the first time we took our young daughter into ocean waves. She was happily enjoying the way she bobbed in the water in her father’s arms—until a huge wave made my husband lose his balance, toppling them both into the suction as it pulled them under. I was shocked at how quickly the wave sucked them down and out. My husband struggled against the tide as it pulled them out to sea, finally regaining his footing and swimming with our daughter back to shore. Our poor little girl came up sputtering and spitting salt water. Her terror that even her strong father couldn’t get her above the waves rattled her faith for a while and she avoided everything but the shallowest water the rest of the time at the seashore.

Watching our children and grandchildren grow up is a lot like watching a tide pull them out to sea and hoping they are strong enough to swim their way back to shore. When fear for them overtakes us, we lay them at Jesus’ feet, trusting him to do what we cannot and keep them close to his heart and his ways.

Isaiah 41:10 says, “Don’t be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be discouraged, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. I will hold you up with my victorious right hand.”

What better hand to cling to when we feel the waves sloshing over our children’s heads.

 

Cherry Cobbler Now in Paperback

Posted on: April 24th, 2012 by johannah No Comments

If you enjoy lighthearted Christian fiction and don’t own an e-reader, check out Cherry Cobbler, now in paperback.

Worth the Fight

Posted on: April 10th, 2012 by johannah 2 Comments

I got to know Marsha (not her real name) when she came to our Bible study with her parents.  Just 22 years old, she had two children and had been divorced twice.  During her second pregnancy, she found a relationship with Christ.  When I met her she was in that new Christian euphoria where it seems that life will be rosy from now on.

Just a few months later, her mother called me in tears.  Marsha was pregnant again and could not face being the single mother of three children.  She’d decided to get an abortion.  Her mother pleaded with me to talk to her.

My heart sank.  Nothing sounded harder than getting involved.  But I met with her and talked about God being the creator of life and that he never makes mistakes.  Marsha only wanted to know one thing.  Did God forgive her and could she ever return to him again?  She felt that since she’d blown it so completely after coming to Christ, that he could never want her again, so she might as well keep on sinning.  I assured her that Jesus waited for her with open arms to come back to him.

I met with Marsha weekly throughout her pregnancy – even during the last few weeks when she was hospitalized in order to keep the baby.  She had become a fighter for this child’s life that she had wanted to destroy a few months earlier.

The world would consider Marsha a failure at her young age, but I think of her with delight.

Joy in Easter Week

Posted on: April 3rd, 2012 by johannah No Comments

A cartoon that appeared in Leadership Journal shows a couple leaving church and shaking hands with the pastor. The man says to the pastor, “You’re in a rut, Reverend. Every time I come here, you preach about the Resurrection.”

We chuckle at that, but sometimes those of us who faithfully come to church more regularly than on Easter have a similar attitude. We want to have a devoted attitude. Instead we fall into, “Yeah, yeah, yeah. Jesus died on the cross and rose from the dead. I know all that.”

It’s tempting to turn the most fantastic event of human history into routine.

Each year, I find I need to slow down and reflect on the events of Easter week so that I can absorb its wonder. Sometimes just walking through those familiar events stirs my heart to remember all that Christ did for me.

Easter week begins with Palm Sunday, which celebrates Christ riding into Jerusalem in great triumph. On this day, all of those following Christ must have been elated. Kings rode horses into battle but rode donkeys at times of peace. The way the crowd responded to Jesus’ entrance that day was the response they would give to royalty. No wonder the Pharisees were nervous and wanted Jesus to rebuke his disciples. And no wonder Jesus said that the stones would cry out if they kept quiet.

The triumphal entry was Jesus’ chance to announce himself as king. He gladly accepted this exultation, knowing he deserved it, but also knowing what was coming a few days later. This day teaches us that crowds are fickle and only true disciples keep walking with Christ to the Cross.

Then on Passover, Jesus celebrated what has come to be known as the Last Supper. It was the last meal Jesus would eat before his death on the cross. In an incredible display of love, Jesus knelt down and washed the feet of his friends, giving them an example of the kind of behavior he expected of them. It’s also astonishing to think that when Jesus knew what he would suffer in a few short hours, he wanted to comfort and pamper his friends, rather than demand that he be comforted and pampered. Perhaps most amazing is that he washed the feet of the one he knew would betray him.

And, of course, Jesus instituted the amazing practice of Communion, saying the bread was his body given for them, asking them to remember him when they took it. Then taking the cup, he declared it to be the new covenant in his blood, poured out for them.

That night led to Jesus’ arrest and his eventual death on the cross. Martin Luther said we all carry the nails that crucified Christ around in our pockets. Mel Gibson also portrayed this thought in his movie, The Passion of the Christ. In the film, his hands are the ones nailing Jesus to the cross.

Until we feel our culpability in Jesus’ death, we will not understand the extent of our sin nature or the expanse of Christ’s forgiveness. We deserve to be the ones punished for our sins. Instead, the faultless one volunteered to take the punishment in our place.

This is the same person that the apostle Paul says in Philippians 2:9 will cause every knee to bow “in heaven and earth and under the earth.” The one who should have been worshiped as king instead died in humility and shame.

Fortunately for us, the story doesn’t end there. We are privileged to have firsthand accounts of his resurrection from the dead. Paul tells us that without Christ’s resurrection, our faith is useless. This is the best news of all. Death has lost its sting and has been swallowed up in victory. We should bring out the band, dance in the streets, and shout from the rooftops this good news. The reality of this hope should surpass a New York ticker tape parade.

Joseph Bayly in “Psalms of My Life,” which appeared in Christianity Today magazine, shares this excellent perspective on Easter:

Let’s celebrate Easter with the rite of laughter.
Christ died and rose and lives.
Laugh like a woman who holds her first baby.
Our enemy death will soon be destroyed.
Laugh like a man who finds he doesn’t have cancer, or he does but now there’s a cure.
Christ opened wide the door to heaven.
Laugh like children at Disneyland’s gates.
This world is owned by God, and he’ll return to rule.
Laugh like a man who walks away uninjured from a wreck in which his car was totaled.
Laugh as if all the people in the whole world were invited to a picnic and then invite them.

As you approach Easter weekend, ponder the story as if you’ve never heard it before. Or ponder it as if you’ve heard it 5,000 times—and it’s just beginning to sink in.

 

Grappling with the Fear of God

Posted on: March 26th, 2012 by johannah 2 Comments

Many of us struggle with reconciling that we are to fear God while knowing that love casts out fear. Scripture indicates that both are necessary. So how to we practice them simultaneously?

To help you understand this important concept, consider these aspects of the fear of God: respect, awe, desire to please, and fear of judgment. Think of a scenario that would demonstrate what each of these should look like. For example, to respect God may manifest itself in a desire to set up a family devotion time to instill a respect for his Word in our children. Or to fear his judgment may be to share Christ with a family member who doesn’t know him.

After you have thought of a different scenario for each aspect, try to come up with a working definition that explains what “the fear of the Lord” truly means and what it can do for your worship of God. As you do this, consider the following Scripture connections:

Walk the Talk

Posted on: March 14th, 2012 by johannah No Comments

I come from a good, but secular family. My dad ran his business with integrity, and my mother raised all five of her children with strict moral standards. Both of them provided boatloads of love. All of us siblings are close and care deeply for each other. But I never attended a church until I became a Christian in my teens.

Because of that, it was rather a shock when I met people who claimed to be Christians who weren’t nearly as outwardly “good” as my family. I didn’t understand how someone could claim to be a Christian and yet talk about sealing a business deal that was a bit shady. Or Christian parents who were angry at each other and cruel to their children. Or Christian siblings who fought over a parent’s inheritance. Or Christians who never lifted a finger to help anyone else.

Since then, I’ve come to understand that many of these people didn’t have the stable family and good example that I had, yet it still disturbs me. If you are going to carry Christ’s name by telling someone you are a Christian, then surely you should reflect his nature. And for all the good examples I had, I’m convinced I’d be a selfish, pampered person without Christ. Only his transformation made me want to give my life away to others rather than hoard what he’s given me for my own use. Such change can happen, if we are willing to walk the talk – to live out what we say we believe – as hard as that may be.

Steve May says in his sermon, “What If I Don’t Feel Like Being Good?”:

Being good may be easy to define, but it’s not always easy to do. By our very nature we don’t always want to do what we know we should. The choice to obey is a split-second decision, and it is always our choice. There is not a sermon you can hear, a church you can attend, a seminar you can go to, or a self-help book you can read that will compel you to act with integrity in any given situation. It is your choice. However, there are things behind the scenes of every choice you make—things you think about and believe—that either empower you or cause you to fail to act with integrity.

So what if you don’t feel like being good? Then you need to remember that being good makes good sense, and build the necessary foundation to develop a habit of obedience.

Do You Trust God with Your Health?

Posted on: March 5th, 2012 by johannah 6 Comments

I’ve had numerous health problems over the years. Not long ago, I had a problem with getting dizzy. I don’t mean just when I spun around in circles. That was not even an option. I sometimes got dizzy when I turned over in bed, when I was typing at my computer, or when I was walking down the hall. Sometimes it was so mild that it only took a moment to get back my equilibrium. Sometimes it was so devastating that I had to lie down or fall down. I wasn’t able to find the trigger or a cure for this, even though I consulted several doctors, was tested for numerous diseases, and read countless articles on dizziness. When it hit severely, I went into my begging mode, pleading with God to take it away. He always did, but sometimes not for days.

That dizziness has now passed. Instead I have a weariness that won’t leave. I’ve been tested for everything under the sun, and sometimes even resting doesn’t help. I have good days and bad days. I don’t know why God allows me to have these mysterious ailments, but he gets my attention when I’m too drained to do all my normal activities. I have to slow down and listen to him, because I can’t do anything else.

I’ve had these problems for at least five years now, and over that time I’ve made some peace with it, and with God. I’ve decided to trust that he knows what he’s doing and to rest in that, even though my circumstances make me helpless, perhaps even because my circumstances make me helpless. For, like Paul, I find that when I am weak, then I am strong (2 Corinthians 12:10).